Where is a good place to meet for the first time?
Meeting in public is a good idea for safety. Most people usually meet for the first time at a cafe/coffee shop. Other people choose to meet at a Bar.
What is a safety call?
A safety call is when you tell a friend where and when you are meeting someone, what time and when to text/call you to see if you are okay or if you need a reason to leave the meet.
Some people tend to have catch phrases/codes that they use so its not obvious to the person you are meeting that your safety call is giving you a reason to leave.
When should you use a safety call?
Anytime you meet someone new, anytime you play with someone the first few times. Some times people use safety calls for every “play date” .
What other precautions can you use for safety.
Many people tend to do a bit of research on their potential play partners by asking other people if they know them, if they have a bad rep or not. once you have met the new person sometimes people ask to talk to previous partners or other current partners.
If able give your safety call any/all details of the person you are meeting.
If you feel pressured into going home with them thats a good time to check in with your safety call.
You always have the right to walk away when you want to with out having to give a reason.
As always S.S.C, R.A.C.K, P.R.I.C.K.